Phoebe Prince and why Slut must be banished from media

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Phoebe Prince was taunted to death by the S word. Media loves THAT word!
Anti-women, pro-Obama media types are foaming at the mouth these days. They are mad at the Tea Party. They are mad at Massachusetts voters, whom they consider ill –bred and none too smart for rejecting ObamaCaid. And they are very very glad a couple of blacks in Congress SAY a reckless Tea Partier used the n word. But they couldn’t care less that a larger than life comedian called Palin a slut. And Obots couldn’t care less that media promotes the use of the use of the S word. Why just the other night on TV I watched as prime time programming on NBC televised: “weapon’s grade bitch, black bitch, bitch and “that slut?”….all in a two hour period.

Now let’s talk about Phoebe Prince.

From the NYTimes:

The prosecutor brought charges Monday against nine teenagers, saying their taunting and physical threats were beyond the pale and led the freshman, Phoebe Prince, to hang herself from a stairwell in January.
Ms. Prince’s family had recently moved to the United States from a small town in Ireland, and she entered South Hadley last fall. The taunting started when she had a brief relationship with a popular senior boy; some students reportedly called her an “Irish slut,” knocked books out of her hands and sent her threatening text messages, day after day.

From Boston Globe:

Kids can be mean, but the Mean Girls took it to another level, according to students and parents. They followed Phoebe around, calling her a slut. When they wanted to be more specific, they called her an Irish slut.

This story paints the culprits as “mean girls” doing the damage to Ms. Prince.
MOre:

You would think this would give the bullies who hounded Phoebe some pause. Instead, they went on Facebook and mocked her in death.They told State Police detectives they did nothing wrong, had nothing to do with Phoebe killing herself.
And then they went right back to school and started badmouthing Phoebe.

Phoebe Prince was a girl. All girls are told it is OK to call women and girls sluts. When David Letterman used the S word against women, not once did anyone in media demand an apology for calling her a slut or for using the S word. I have yet to see a column in the NYTimes that is frothing mad about the fact that nightly on TV, Hollywood is telling all our children it is OK to use the S word. The more the media called women such as Hillary and Palin sexist names such as whore, bitch and slut, the more happy they were about thier crime!

But slut hurts. Why in God’s name can they not see the damage the word does? There is NO excuse for the promulgation of degrading terms. If your classmates follow you around and taunt you with the S word, it hurts. Feministing LOVEs to use the B word. NOT ONCE did they make a targeted push for Letterman to apologize for calling Palin the S word. NOt once. Instead, they scratched their collective air-heads and said, "so what."

Media tells our children it is OK to use the S word. Meida females who are male-appointed “feminists” taunt our women with S, W, B and C words and then we are surprised that female children do the same to female children they don’t like—with grievous consequences.
Let's think for a second....
Joan Walsh committed crimes against humanity by promulgating misogyny on her web site. FemiSex has said all along “if it is OK to call the woman you don’t like a slut, then it is OK to call every women a slut.”
Are there one set of rules for media and Hollywood and another for teenage girls when it comes to sexist language? The answer is complicated: media and Hollywood dont' want powerful women, they want to be able to call women sexist words to keep women in their place, to degnigrate them at will. When the chickens come home to roost, how pathetic is the media when they cry CROCK tears about Ms. Prince!

You want mean girl? I’ll give you mean girl! I wish that Joan’s daughter were younger, in high school, that she was taunted every day with each and every word that Salon used against Palin. I wish that she would have come home to her high-profile sexist mother Joan and begged her mother to stop telling the world it is OK to commit misogyny. (Salon was especially misogynistic in its treatment of Palin and HRC but to a lesser extent.) I wish her daughter would tell Joan that it is NEVER OK to call women the S word, especially when you are the editor of a national well-read web site. I wish Joan had allowed herself to see this truth. I wish that Joan had made a public apology for the misogyny on her wed site. I wish she had written many posts about the danger of sexist words, especially to young women in our culture.
I wish the “mean girls” who treated Ms. Prince the way Salon treated Palin, would have read the angst-filled columns Walsh had written on behalf of her tormented daughter. I wish media told them they were worth more than Slut, Bitch, White Bitch, Big Fucking Whore, etc.

I wish Ms. Prince were still alive.
I wish someone, ANYONE with a large media audience would tell the mean girls: we were wrong! It is NOT OK to use the S word. It is not OK to use the B, C or W word. Even when it involves white women. Trust me on this: Joan would Never DARE to call a black women a slut, a fuckable blow up doll or put her in a demeaning sexual position with a moose.

I know that Joan is too dull to get her harm, and I know that Letterman and the NYTImes and so many other media outlets are smart enough to know their harm.
But none of that matters. Not until we women DEMAND the END to the S word, just as loudly as media demands the end to the N word.

The next time you hear the S word, I beg you: think of Ms. Prince. Then for pete's sake: THINK AGAIN, before you ever use that word. And if you are brave enough, tell the misogynist STOP!

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/30/us/30bully.html?src=me

http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/articles/2010/01/24/the_u...

Comments

The policy of the NYTimes is

The policy of the NYTimes is not to publish the N word. In fact, the policy is to simply refer to the word as a racial epithet. Now we already know how fond the NYTimes is of printing the B word. (they spell that out, no problem and call Mrs. Clinton that, no problem.) But on April 2nd, the Times did a niggardly story on Ms. Prince that was anything but a detailed look at how society primes women to engages in misogyny against one another. In fact the story had no there, there. Just a finger point without any attempt at real reporting.
But to show the world how fucked up mean girls are they put this story on their front page with the word slut front and center, whore as well. Both spelled out.
If we are going to keep women as 2nd class citizens it is important to show girls that it is OK to print these words in the NYTimes.

I am just thinking. A girl hanged herself after being taunted by mean girls. That makes front page of NYT.
I wonder why the gang rape of an African national child by 8 of several African national teenaged boys and the subsequent abandonment of the child by her African national parents (because she was dirty goods, they claimed) did not make the front page of the NYTimes? A child of 8 in Arizona was tormented by mean boys and abandoned by mean parents and guess what? Nothing.
Not a thing. Don't want to turn public opinion against African nationals but for the mean girls of Boston, pimp THAT ride!

I like the way you write your

I like the way you write your articles are clear and too the point. Let’s remember humans have a knack for being cruel to each other. Those “Mean Girls” enjoyed Phoebe’s pain and they relished in her suffering. The entire group is guilty of a crime, against a human being. As for the words; SLUT, WHORE, CUNT, NIGGER, BITCH, they do not belong in intelligent conversations. Individuals have no class when they need to fall back on an ugly word. And for goodness sake stop using the first letter of the word, N= Nigger, the word no one should say. I don’t care if you are a black man or a bigot. Enough No One Can Say It! I don’t want to hear it.

I have not seen one story on

I have not seen one story on our culture's blame in this slut game.

I was not aware of Phoebe

I was not aware of Phoebe Prince nor her death. What a shame!!! Such a beautiful girl.
I agree with everything in this post about cultural perpetuation of sexism.
I agree that "Charges should be brought against the school, too"
I am think all involved should be expelled and that every school person of authority who ignored this should be fired!

Its is a sorry state when the school or other students could n ot take a stand against such a "gang".
I would make every last one of them read Femisex every day and write an essay on how to end sexism and misogyny.

This post is really

This post is really something. I drop by occasionally and when I do, I feel like this site actually cares about all women, not just "correct-thinking" democrat women.
thanks

@Alison, you are so right. The school should have done more! What galls me is that I think this will play out like the gang rape of a high-school girl in California earlier this year or late last. (I can't remember, but I think it occurred in Richmond and involved a lot of Hispanic boys.) Everyone will get all up in arms about the lack of school intervention, and ignore the media's women problem: degrading women.

The best intervention is prevention. But it sickens me to know how correct you are in saying if it had been a black/white issue it would have been dealt with day one. Physically sickens me.

Interesting: Prom Dress Trend

Interesting:
Prom Dress Trend for 2010 Is 'Slutty Chic'

http://www.stylelist.com/2010/03/29/prom-dress-trend-for-2010-is-slutty-chic/?icid=main|htmlws-main-n|dl5|link6|http%3A%2F%2Fwww.stylelist.com%2F2010%2F03%2F29%2Fprom-dress-trend-for-2010-is-slutty-chic%2F

How about Nigger chic? Would MSM print that?

This post is superb. I don't

This post is superb. I don't think it is mean girl of Femisex to wish a sexist mudslinger have the chicks come home to roost.

Charges should be brought

Charges should be brought against the school, too. If the school had dealt with an issue of mean girls calling a new african american student something racist, this would have been dealt with on day one.

When I read about Phoebe Prince the other day the first thing I thought of (well after feeling sad and horrified) is the work that is being done here to eradicate violent words used against women. The second thing I thought about is how our culture is raising girls to hate other girls. Any girl that we don't have control over. It seems like the reason that this girl was so hated was because she briefly dated a very popular boy in high school. Since she was a newcomer, the mean girls didn't own her yet and how dare she be so bold! Also, Phoebe Prince was very pretty. And nothing worse than a pretty girl who behaves independently and isn't "owned".

But.... here is what I am afraid of. Instead of having a national conversation about how we treat and portray women and girls and how other women and girls can treat their females badly because they learn from a young age that it is good to do this... I'm afraid it will be a national conversation about how some girls can just be so mean and isn't that just the way girls are because even mom's at the library with young boys talk about how little girls are just so mean...

Just imagine.... if a young boy committed suicide because he was ruthlessly called "fag" for months and months and months and attacked with a soda can from a moving car.... we would definitely be having a more enlightened national conversation.

The mother of one of the

The mother of one of the "Mean Girls" charged with bullying 15-year-old Phoebe Prince to death defended her daughter Tuesday, saying she never lifted a hand against the tormented girl but just "called her names."

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/2010/03/30/2010-03-30_mom_of_te...

There's nothing wrong with

There's nothing wrong with name calling. Just ask Senator Schumer.

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